{"id":4200,"date":"2016-02-24T16:16:36","date_gmt":"2016-02-24T21:16:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/?p=4200"},"modified":"2016-03-01T21:15:31","modified_gmt":"2016-03-02T02:15:31","slug":"lenten-challenge-13-second-fiddle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/lenten-challenge-13-second-fiddle\/","title":{"rendered":"Lenten Challenge #13: Second Fiddle"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;<em>For some of us, relinquishing control and sacrificing our own agendas or plans is difficult. &#8230;<\/em>&#8221; So the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.40acts.org.uk\/the-challenge\/second-fiddle\/\" target=\"_blank\">challenge for <\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.40acts.org.uk\/the-challenge\/second-fiddle\/\" target=\"_blank\">today<\/a> is to put someone else&#8217;s needs\/desires head of your own.<\/p>\n<p>OK, my first reaction is &#8211; I do this many times a day! This is how my mother lived, what I and my sisters were taught as little girls, it is especially true if you want to be &#8220;a good wife&#8221; (so I was taught) &#8211; that others&#8217; needs were more important than our own.<\/p>\n<p>My job as administrative assistant is based on fulfilling others&#8217; needs. So much of my job involves stopping whatever task I was working on to help someone else. I am not complaining, I love my job (most of the time). Just sayin&#8217; playing second fiddle is something I do all the time.<\/p>\n<p>I think for many of us women learning to give some priority to our own needs is what we need to practice. <a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-4201\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4201\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/lenten-challenge-13-second-fiddle\/img_0386-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?fit=900%2C900\" data-orig-size=\"900,900\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS REBEL T5&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1456326334&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;90&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;1600&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.005&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMG_0386 (1)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?fit=300%2C300\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?fit=525%2C525\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-4201\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?resize=150%2C150\" alt=\"IMG_0386 (1)\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?resize=150%2C150 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?resize=300%2C300 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?resize=768%2C768 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?resize=600%2C600 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/IMG_0386-1.jpg?w=900 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>With today&#8217;s ice storm the church was even quieter than yesterday! And I think I had only 2 phone calls to interrupt what I was doing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;For some of us, relinquishing control and sacrificing our own agendas or plans is difficult. &#8230;&#8221; So the challenge for today is to put someone else&#8217;s needs\/desires head of your own. OK, my first reaction is &#8211; I do this many times a day! This is how my mother lived, what I and my sisters &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/lenten-challenge-13-second-fiddle\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Lenten Challenge #13: Second Fiddle&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,37],"tags":[89,87],"class_list":["post-4200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-faith","category-update","tag-40acts","tag-lent"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4200"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4200\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4202,"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4200\/revisions\/4202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baburkard.com\/crochet\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}